Change, 180.
I cant say that there has ever been a time that
I have felt this poorly overall. Usually
I'm able to focus on something in my life that can give me something
positive. It's also not that I don't
like my life, who I am, what I do, who I'm with - I'm just not happy
overall. So I could be experiencing the
usual monthly hormone swings, my depression could be back with a bit stronger
cycle. I'm not sure. All I know is that
I've never felt like this before, or if I did, I can't recall.
I don't need to convince myself that I have much
to be grateful for, I have boatloads. I have people who love and care about me,
a few friends that I'm sure would like to spend more time with me than I give
them. I have pets I love dearly. My career is good. Regardless I am in a fog. I can't sleep
properly, I can't move properly. I ache, it's difficult, and I just don't
recognize myself anymore.
I used to think that the 30's were my transition
years. The years that you move from the
uninhibited 20's to your "real" adult years. Now, as I turn 44, I'm thinking those were
still the young years. Now I feel like
I'm in a flux between life with less roots and life that feels like I'm
shackled to routine. Is life so
regimented and formal that I have to do the day to day grind. Is it really unrealistic to think that given
the opportunity for Mike and I we could
completely redefine our lives based on what we want rather than what we have to
do. Is that so outside of the norm?
Ok off track - that's for another moment of self
reflection.
My image today that I want to focus on for self
reflection is this.
A pier over water. What I think when I look at it are a few
different things. I see a path that has
to be followed. I see an edge where you
must jump off and move in to a totally different environment otherwise you move
backwards. Even if I try and deviate
from the path it has to be something different.
It's either move forward and try something new, stay frozen in the same
place and just look out over the possibilities or go backwards. That's it.
I'd say that I were to place myself on the pier
I would be a few feet from the edge. Not
at the end yet but very very close.
Maybe just a step or two a day away from the edge.
One thing I can't see is what or who is in the
water. Water has much life within so I
wouldn't be alone. So even though as I
look out on the horizon and see no one, I have to believe that when I take the
step or jump in to the water, or my new environment that it will be full of
love and support like this one is.
I'm so tired.
